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A girl with inner hope and overwhelming passion for life. Love for literature as an engineer.

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Jan. 2013  

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Every day has different meaning for different people. For some, most of the days seems the same, nothing much. For some, while it is nothing much with others' life, something of special meaning is reaching out. Like January 2013, my mother is visiting the United States for the first time, my boyfriend will meet with my mother for the first time and we can finally share our love story with my mother, no more hiding,no more convincing. 

This Friday, my roommate didn't stay with her boyfriend for the first time during the past several months. That's why she finally got a chance to catch up with friends, like Qiaojue and me. That's when I realized from her complaint how boring their life is and how she want to change but her boyfriend disagree. Behind their everyday 24 hour routine together, they have their own problems behind love and they have to deal with it. It is pathetic that when friends can finally sit down and talk with each other, all they are talking about is still about a boy.  She tried to help me to practice driving road test, but got into an argument with her boyfriend because he wanted she to stay at his house and never change staying-at-home plan without his agreement. I understand her situation but can't help felt pathetic about a relationship and an understanding like this. This boy is taking away her girlfriend's personal life with friends and occupy her to his own. This is unfair to her and yet she failed to change this in afraid of getting into an argument that she will never win the fairness. And I am thinking is this the reason why girls ended up having less friends than boys after they settle down within a relationship or a family?  Anyway, she is a good girl and I hope she won't get hurt too much from this. It is important to realize you own situation and try to change the way one want to. What others can help with is very limited. Mindset is very important.

 I stayed in bed for a whole Saturday because of my period, watching some TV series to distract from pain. The next morning, I returned mother's video call after waking up. Our conversation is mostly nice after she agreed the fact that I am staying together with bmp. It is pleasant to see her sitting in front of my old laptop in the familiar bedroom. My old book still stood on bookshelf, the sheet and pillow, everything seems so familiar and that's home. In ten days, my mother will transit from a small town in China, where I spent 16 years, to Shanghai, the place she saw me off Sep. 10, 2012 and land in Chicago airport, a huge one in the United States. Then, after customs check, she will fly to Cincinnati, where imp and bmp will be expecting her. It is like magic, a magic all of us wanted so much. I never though my dream of studying abroad will come true until it came true. Had I not come here, there is no chance that mom and I will live together in a foreign country. All of this seems like magic for a small-town girl.

I am a small-town girl, but my destiny linked with a much broader world. That's why it is like magic when things come true.

And I am enjoying life and working hard to expect the near future and far-away future.

Love you, bmp and mum.

Hope you are enjoying your coming new year in China and hope you are all having a good time, my friends^_^
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