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水仙轩

We are the champions,my friends!

 
 
 

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A girl with inner hope and overwhelming passion for life. Love for literature as an engineer.

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A New Start  

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This is the same title that opened my first article on this blog in 2008. That day was my 17th birthday. I continued writing my thinking and stories starting from then. Today is my 23th birthday. And even more interesting is the fact that it is again a new start. Saying goodbye to school life, I took the society course to walk my own way. 

Today is my 23th birthday. Unlike at my 17th, there is flower, there is cake, thanks to my darling. I fell in love with the boy who gave me the idea to open this blog and we've been together ever since. Unlike at my 17th, these is everyday pressure, there is the feeling that time is chasing me and there is an urgent need to get more meaningful things done before I say goodbye to my 20th and fell into family responsibility. My peers at my hometown are getting married one by one, my mother is reminding me of the marriage stuff, my college friends are mostly settling down with a career start and my graduate school friends are mostly staying for PhD. For me, I have a career start before me. It may not be an ideal one considering the fact that I am so passionate about language and literature instead of engineering. However, this is the best choice I made among what is available at this moment. I did my best to allow myself worry less about financial aspect and pursue what I really like during my spare time. After figuring out where my passion really lies, my dream is to turn it into a full-time job.

I had been nervous looking forward to this birthday out of the fear that I am still not clear about my own goals and self-identity. Past experience told me that having a plan or a goal in mind is the best way to lead a positive direction. Until I listened to the Ted Talk about what to think about in the 20th period, I felt somewhat relieved. Yes, adulthood maybe less carefree as the precious childhood. However, that's exact what I looked forward to at an young age and it got its advantages. I have more control over my own life and choices. It is about adding more value to myself and trying to figure things out. No need to panic, meaningless to panic. Instead of that, act out and do something.

This is my 23th oath. Start to take life's course, add value to myself and always strive to improve. About adding value, it is a matter of making life more meaningful by helping others to take their dream courses. I always have the belief that excellent people help others to realize their dreams. That is the type of people that I admire and would like to follow as an example. There is no room for complaining, being jealous and comparing with others in a negative way. I can always improve by complimenting others from the bottom of my heart and learn from the good ones. That's the way that society can be a better place for everyone to live. Be kind, to others and to myself. Be kind to see, be kind to listen and be kind to improve. Equally important is to be strong. Be strong to endure the pain, to protect dreams and to create an enduring happiness.

Happy birthday to me ! And best wishes to all of you. We are the champions, my friends !




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